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Same act, different views

Many people find the same thing either sweet or creepy. I have a friend who always walked the girl he liked to class and was outside her classes after class. She thought it was the sweetest thing, and they ended up going out(not just because of that haha). I know another guy, whom walked the girl he liked to class and he was outside her classes after class and she thought it was THE creepiest thing ever. So what I realize is that many people will view the same thing differently. But what I think determines it is how attracted you are to the person. For example, someone attractive can go upto a girl he has never spoken to and say that they should hang out because he wants to get to know her better and she would find him to be so dreamy because he's straightforward. If someone who she found unattractive did that same exact thing, it would then be creepy. So you can't please everyone, you can't constantly modify how you act depending on who you like. If the girl you like liste...

Thin Line

I struggle to choose whether I am to feel humble or confident. I saw an interview of Kevin Durant and he said that he believes Lebron, Kobe, and Dwyane Wade are 1a. 1b. and 1c. in the league. The interviewer says where is Kevin in the league? He says thriving to try and be as good as them. In the youtube comments, people appreciated his humble behavior. But others say someone should be confident in themselves. I don't understand which is better? I think you have to do what you want because yes, in the end we DO care about what people think, BUT you can't please everyone so you do what you would like to. Here's the link  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvWxE97FwAI